These days are rare. Our impatience causes us to become paranoid in some terms. The days have been very slow, Friday appeared like Mondays, Wednesdays appeared Saturday. Having Easter holidays, makes us more confused.
I'm in the emergency center, and I'm not doing a heavy work today. It is more rare afternoon of my last seven years in this hospital. I've only visit three patients in the ward, and I thought to write a little.
The week started badly. Our doctor told us that we would have an idea of pregnancy this Saturday, March 30th. How we get confused previously at transfers dates, we think of sending email to make sure that the positive would be this week. We had no answer. The week passed, and we had missed something that has not happened before: our doctor did not respond to our emails ... We have spent four days without news from India! As you can imagine, and those who have been through this process, they should know taht the period between the transfer and the result is always endless. We thought of everything that something had stopped our process, perhaps mothers had repented, they did not want us not to say anything to make us suffer ...
This morning I sent an SMS to our doctor, and he replied instantly. He told us that everything was still on course!. Our surrogacy are doing some rest, and what our doctor tells us basically is: YOU JUST PRAY.Although the pregnancy test could be positive, confirmation will not be for another two weeks. It has to be confirmed by ultrasound and display the gestational sac. Heard the heartbeat at 7 weeks.
This night stay for dinner with some friends who are investigating surrogacy in Mexico, through a friend of mine who lives there and who is also a doctor.
I'm in the emergency center, and I'm not doing a heavy work today. It is more rare afternoon of my last seven years in this hospital. I've only visit three patients in the ward, and I thought to write a little.
The week started badly. Our doctor told us that we would have an idea of pregnancy this Saturday, March 30th. How we get confused previously at transfers dates, we think of sending email to make sure that the positive would be this week. We had no answer. The week passed, and we had missed something that has not happened before: our doctor did not respond to our emails ... We have spent four days without news from India! As you can imagine, and those who have been through this process, they should know taht the period between the transfer and the result is always endless. We thought of everything that something had stopped our process, perhaps mothers had repented, they did not want us not to say anything to make us suffer ...
This morning I sent an SMS to our doctor, and he replied instantly. He told us that everything was still on course!. Our surrogacy are doing some rest, and what our doctor tells us basically is: YOU JUST PRAY.Although the pregnancy test could be positive, confirmation will not be for another two weeks. It has to be confirmed by ultrasound and display the gestational sac. Heard the heartbeat at 7 weeks.
This night stay for dinner with some friends who are investigating surrogacy in Mexico, through a friend of mine who lives there and who is also a doctor.
Are still many problems in India for surrogacy. In all clinical processes have stopped by the new laws. Many people have asked us why we have continued with the process and other clinics do not ...
I will explain a fact that happened in February. We consulted at several clinics in New Delhi, before deciding on the clinic. One of the most important hospitals in New Delhi assured us that there would be no problem as long as we had to pay "tuition" to enter the process. They claimed that as requested information before 2013, it guaranteed to make sure that we can make the process (I found absurd). We sent 3 emails with about 60 egg donor profiles with photos (it is illegal to send online profiles, because the donation must be anonymous, you can not take your photographs from the donor). They assured us that we were on the lists of the FRRO to continue with the process ... BUT ... They had not our names, did not have our passports, they had no information from us! how it was possible that we could be included on lists of the state without having something as basic as our name? However, our doctor asked us photocopies of passports, airline tickets and signed a contract with the clinic, and all this was sent to FRRO.
I think the difference is clear ... Someone did not do their homework, and actually intended parents are now paying with their dreams just the ambition of a few. I'm sure everything will be resolved, but the bad times and have taken him many.
I will write on 24 to 48 hours, with the result of our pregnancy test! Hugs!
Best of luck! This forum is the most objective than we have found by internet! Keep writing please!!
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