8 days left!!!

Sorry for not writing sooner! Last week I had a lot of work and it was impossible to write.New news:We chose our egg donor. At the beginning, we doubt pick up a indian donor or maybe caucasian. As I explained in my family photos, did not hesitate to pick up an Indian girl because Caucasians were not entirely to our liking ... In the end, cast back, and we prefer Caucasian ... We looked a little afraid that our children and would have to be a hard life for not having a mother to feel different from the color of the skin. We look at the chances we had, but at the last moment, the donor chosed was the indian that my family had decided! This week, my dr is preparing the egg donor to do with hormones egg retrieval.

Our doctor, wrote us today and she told us that we had 3 surrogate mothers are ready to start with us. We did not understand very well why had three mothers, if you really only needed two, or at least that was what we agreed. I'll explain later when I know ;).

Also today we got the results of the semen. We seem to be fertile! The truth is there are some parameters that are fair, but not quite right ... We didn't be in abstinence fulfilled within 5 days, were 3. And we came to the hospital on a motorcycle for 20 minutes at 2 ° C. ..

Guidelines for a semen analysis: 
- Abstain from sex for 5 days. 
- Volume needed for quantification: 2ml 
- Sperm: 20 million / ml
 - Ejaculated sperm: 40 million / ml 
- Types of sperm:
    A: fast
    B: slow
    C: nonprogressive mobile
    D: Stationary
   It is normal to have 25% of type A or A + B that represent 50%- Sperm euform: means same way. It is good when it is higher than 15%, since if less than 15%, the outcome of IVF is lower.

Furthermore, we did the first deposit of money to the clinic. It cost $ 4,000, to begin the process. Change were about 3,180 euros with transfer costs (42 euros with ING Direct).

Throughout this year, we will have to make reforms at home, to stay ahead of the birth.

I do not know if I had said previously that finally we told our family we could not do surrogacy in India. We like to do it in an intimate way, anyone to know until the time comes. We wish we could say when the surrogate mother is about 12 weeks. If all goes well, we could speak in May at home. If you knew our mothers, you would understand.

Now I'm at a point in my professional life important. I'm evolving as a specialist, but also try to work all I can afford to have a baby.

I'll write soon! When we have more news! Only 8 days left!

Regards